REVIEW: Rules of Civility

… life is less like a journey than it is a game of honeymoon bridge. In our twenties, when there is still so much time ahead of us, time that seems ample for a hundred indecisions, for a hundred visions and revisions — we draw a card, and we must decide right then and there whether to keep that card and discard the next, or discard the first card and keep the second. And before we know it, the deck has been played out and the decisions we have just made will shape our lives for decades to come.

Maybe that sounds bleaker than I intended.

 

Hi all! I’m here with a new review. I adored this book and just couldn’t stop thinking about it. So I’m going to share my view with you in hopes you will all want to read it.

 

I will stress that this review was not commissioned or request by anyone and I’m not getting paid. All thoughts on this book are my own opinion.

 

Rules of Civility

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Author: Amor Towles

Genre: Historical fiction

First published: 2011

Publisher: Sceptre (imprint of Hodder & Stoughton)

Page number: 324

 

On the last night of 1937, twenty-five-year-old Katey Kontent is in a second-rate Greenwich Village jazz bar with her boardinghouse roommate stretching three dollars as far as it will go when Tinker Grey, a handsome banker with royal blue eyes and a tempered smile, happens to sit at the neighbouring table. This chance encounter and its startling consequences propel Katey on a yearlong journey from a Wall Street secretarial pool toward the upper echelons of New York society and the executive suites of Condé Nast–rarefied environs where she will have little to rely upon other than a bracing wit and her own brand of cool nerve.

Wooed in turn by a shy, principled multi-millionaire and an irrepressible Upper East Side ne’er-do-well, befriended by a single-minded widow who is a ahead of her time, and challenged by an imperious mentor, Katey experiences firsthand the poise secured by wealth and station and the failed aspirations that reside just below the surface. Even as she waits for circumstances to bring Tinker back into her life, she begins to realise how our most promising choices inevitably lay the groundwork for our regrets.

 

My rating: 5

 

This was a book I picked up on a whim at during a secondhand book sale because it’s set in New York during the 1930s. So where do I start.

This is a beautifully written book. Towles proses are lyrical and he manages to capture the essence of the 30s perfectly. Everything from setting, character’s behavior, food, clothing, technology is so vivid that you feel like you are there.

Going into the novel, I was worried has there are no quotation marks. So dialogue is signaled with a dash (ie. — Maybe the moon, I conceded). But I never had a issue telling what was spoken and what wasn’t. This is mostly because Towles rarely includes dialogue attributions and if there is a group of people talking it’s written like script. For example:

If you could be anyone for a day, who would you be?

Me: Mata Hari

Tinker: Natty Bumppo.

Eve: Darryl Zanuck.

 

I adored the structure of this novel. It opens with Katey and her husband at an art show during the 60s. The exhibit they go to see is a photographer’s work from the 20s and 30s – he took photos of people on trains. During the show, Katey notices two photos of her old friend, Tinker Grey. This moment sparks Katey in remembering the year she met him, 1938. For here the book spans over a year and splits into seasons – Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall (or Autumn). Its amazing to see just how much a persons life can change over the course of a single year – from the friends you gain and lose, your career, appearance and the place you love to go.

This will come as no surprise, but I highly recommend that everyone read this book. I think it is beautiful is every way shape and form. If you are interested in this novel please, please read it.

 

That’s all for me for today, comment down below and let me know if you’ve read Rules of Civility and what you though.

Until next time, happy reading!

Dearna

REVIEW: The Virgin Suicides

Hi all! Sorry for my lack of posting last week but I’m back with my much hinted at book review. This is my first official review so lets get started.

First off I will just you an overview of The Virgin Suicides and my general thoughts. There will be a spoilery discussion section but I will give you fair warning in case you have yet to read it – because we all know there is nothing worse than someone spoiling a book for you.

 

The Virgin Suicides

VIRGIN SUICIDES

Author: Jeffery Eugenides

Genre: YA Contempory

First Published: 2005

Page Numbers: 249

 

This book follows the neighbourhood boys as they look back on their adolescence and the traumatic event that shakes their town. The Lisborn sisters seem relatively normal for the only date their mother let them out on. Twenty years on, their enigmatic personalities are embalmed in the memories of the boys who worshipped them: the brassiere draped over a crucifix belonging to the promiscuous Lux; the sisters’ breathtaking appearance on the night of the dance; and the sultry, sleepy street across which they watched a family disintegrate and fragile lives disappear.

This book as a trigger warning for suicide and I wouldn’t recommend if you’re not comfortable hearing about how these sister take their lives.

 

My Rating: 2 1:2

 

I was pulled into this book immediately by the beautiful first line. My biggest issue this that I just don’t feel like this book and what I’d heard about this book lived up to the first line or my expectations. Which is a real shame because I was looking forward to reading this but ultimately Eugenidies, I don’t feel, answer any of the question we have about the Lisborn girls and why they did what they did. I understand that having the story we’re not going to get an in-depth explanation but I felt like there wasn’t’ an explanation at all. And the boys didn’t seem to care about why they all decided to commit suicide but rather focus on remembering how in love they were with these mysterious girls.

Personally I wouldn’t recommend this, but if this sounds like something you’re interested in, have seen the movie adaption or want to form your own opinion of this novel – as I think mine is in the minority – I suggest reading it as it’s quite short and fast paced read.

 

 

SPOILERY DISCUSSION

I knew that is novel was told through the perspective of the neighbour boys — which, at first, I really enjoyed. I loved the idea of piecing together what happened by watching this unfold from the outside. However I do feel like way too many characters were given quite extensive backstory only to the once and used just to tell us one aspect of one of the Lisborn sister’s life. For example the youngest sister, Cecilia’s friend is given a huge background story just to tell us that Cecilia was upset that the guy she had a crush on was in love with some other girl. Also another guy also gets a background story only to tell us that Lux Lisborn had sex with him and the weird, alternate contraception methods she uses.

I will say that having the story told through a group persective was interesting. As a reader it really draws you in to feel like one of these boys. So because I felt that way I would’ve been better to remove these minor character’s backstories and let me as the reader fill in the blanks.

My biggest problem is this idea that the girls had a suicide pact, which I suppose at the end they did, but at the start when the youngest sister first ends her life the other seem to resent this idea and the extra care they are given.

Also I felt like we still have no idea why in the end these girls decided to end their lives and in such violent ways. Cecilia first suicide attempt is to cut herself; however her mother comes home into to save her. The way she kill herself was horrific – she jumped off the roof and impaled herself on the fence. But I saw nothing to justify such a violent death. Yes her mother was strict with them but never hints at abuse and its reference several times just how much the father adores the girls. For me if someone has decided to end their life if such a violent way is because they have been through something severly traumatic.

Similarly I feel that the parent’s reaction to Cecilia’s death was wildly unrealistic. I just don’t see how they could neglect their other daughters. Yes I can imagine there would be a long grieving period because as people we can’t just get over the loss of a love one so quickly but I would’ve thought your other children would be a pretty good motivator to get back to everyday life.

Finally the boys. I know that they are looking back on this time but I feel like for a bunch of guys who claim to be in love with these girls they spend too much time remembering what they looked like and what they wore rather than focusing on the mystery of what the hell happened to make all five Lisborn sisters end their lives. Because these group of boys where obsessed to the point where they where watching these girls every move, the collected some of their vinyl and the crucifix Lux used to drape her bras on. Also there were there in the Lisborn house during the last suicides. One of the girls, Lux from memory, calls them and tells them to come over and save them, to run away with them. However while they were in the house, Therese is in the process of overdosing on sleeping pills and Bonnie’s hung herself in the basement. Lux lets them inside and tells them to wait there while she gets the car, where she dies due to carbon monoxide poisoning. So they were there, both watching from their house across the road and inside the house and the last 3 Lisborn sisters commit suicide and they still don’t know what happened!!

As you can tell my biggest frustration with the book is that we don’t know why this happened, even from reading into what they observed of the family we never know what happens. I’m not saying I wanted Eugenides to spell out everything that happened but I think a few more solid clues and hint would’ve been helpful.

I don’t know maybe I read it wrong but anyway these were my issues with the book.

 

 

That’s all for me for today, comment down below and let me know if you’ve read The Virgin Suicides and what you though.

Until next time, happy reading!

Dearna         

 

 

Lovingly Bookish October Box

Hi all! Today I’m here with a review for the Lovingly Bookish’s October subscription box.

Lovingly Bookish is a YA subscription box. Each month you received a beautiful hardcover book and 4 to 8 bookish items, along with a golden ticket. There is a Golden Ticket Giveaway for each subscription box which gives you a chance to win more bookish items. Lovingly Bookish themes each box depending on the book chosen. For October the theme was dark blue which represented superstition – a perfect theme for a Halloween box.

For those in Australia like me, one of the perks that made me chose this box over others is that shipping is included in the price. The box costs $45 USD each month.

For more information about Lovingly Bookish and what they do: http://lovinglybookish.blogspot.com.au/p/home.html

Now onto the review!

 

For October the box included:

  • 1 beautiful hardcover book – The House by Christina Lauren
  • 1 Halloween bookmark from HappyHelloCo
  • 1 Mini Funk Pop – Olaf
  • 1 Bird magnet from theangryrobot
  • 1 Book review notebook from YellowPaperHouse
  • 1 Bookish lip balm from FromthePage
  • 1 Bag of lollies
  • 1 Adorable mini tote bag

 

The Bookish Goodies BOOKISH THINGS

I really loved all the items in this box and I think they fitted with the Halloween theme perfectly. The review book was perfect as I had just decided to start up my book blog so it will defiantly get a lot of use. The magnet is adorable and reminds me very much of The Raven which in one of my favourite poems. And I love the little tote bag and the quote is perfect!

The lollies were a nice touch for Halloween – they do not appear in the photo as I ate them.

Not being a huge fan of Frozen, I did give my mini Pop to my sister who adores it. So this would be the item I was least happy about.

The item I was most excited about was the bookish lip balm. I love FromthePage’s Etsy store and want to buy just about everything they stock but had been putting if off due to the shipping costs. I’m so happy with the lip balm, it’s nice and moisturising also it’s inspired by Winterwell which I love – House Stark forever!

 

The BookTHE HOUSE

I hadn’t heard of this book and don’t know much about it apart form what the blurb says. But I am interest to read it.

The House is told from two perspectives, Gavin and Delilah, and is about this strange and spooky house. This sounds like the perfect read for a stormy day.

Goodreads

 

 

Overall I really loved this box and would defiantly subscribe to get another one. I highly recommend this subscription services, especially for those like me who live outside The States and can’t afford pricey shipping costs.

 

Let me know in the comments if you’ve read this book and what you thought or what subscription boxes you’ve subscribed to.

Until next time happy reading!

Dearna